I’ve recently experienced some hurtful accusations. Despite knowing that opinions are not facts, it’s difficult not to let them affect you. It seems like these “friends” can do a 360 turn on you by spreading rumors or passing judgment. They go through some sort of external validation process where opinions eventually become facts, after a while even I start second guessing myself. The older I become, the more people I encounter, the more alone I feel. Counter intuitive right? Even I don’t understand what this means. It seems that the only way to prevent this is to tread carefully in life, or be anti-social. But what if I’m not comfortable with either. What if I just want to find the right people? I guess I’ll just have to be ready, friend or foe.
